We are all trying to reach some goal. Whether it be fame, fortune, family, friends, etc. we all have ulterior motives. So what do I mean you ask? Stop complaining. My wonderful mentor (and sister) told me in a fairly abrupt but honest and fair statement that "if I don't like something about myself, change it". Since that moment, I realized I had complete control. I have COMPLETE control over my attitude, my emotions, and my perceptions. Only I can choose how I treat others and how I value myself.
Ok...so I digress. My ultimate point is...we are focusing on the least important things. We are focusing on the end result when the end result is ALWAYS the same. So why not focus on the now...the events that happen and lead up to the end?
I will expand more later. Goodnight